29.12.21

7 Tips for Taking Care of Skin in the Winter


It’s important to stay on top of your skincare all the time, but you might notice that during the winter, things can get especially difficult. There are so many different skin concerns that come up during the wintertime that you don’t have to deal with during the rest of the year. Especially if you struggle with dry skin or breakouts, the winter can be A dreaded season. However, there are plenty of ways that you can take a little bit better care of your skincare throughout the winter season. Whether you are already a skincare guru or you simply want to learn the best tips and tricks that work for you, here are a few of the best ways that you can care for your skin a little bit better as the weather gets frightful.

8 Tips for Avoiding Carpal Tunnel Syndrome


Carpal tunnel syndrome doesn’t discriminate — even if you don’t think you’re the type of person to struggle with it, you may find that it can creep up on you. Whether you experience a lot of pain on a regular basis from carpal tunnel syndrome or you feel like it might be coming on slowly, there are definitely things you can do to avoid and prevent it. While some of them are habits you can get in the swing of, others are techniques you can incorporate into your routine right away. Here are some tips to help you avoid carpal tunnel syndrome.

23.12.21

Our New Years Eve Plans


Can you believe that we will be waving goodbye to 2021 in a matter of days? It doesn’t seem like two minutes since we were saying happy new year, making resolutions and hoping that the year ahead was going to be better than the year before – well that didn’t exactly go to plan did it? Here’s hoping that 2022 will be better for everyone.

There’s been a lot of changes for us this year, some good, some not so good but on a whole we can’t complain. We’re all healthy, happy and very much together and that’s more than some of our family and friends who haven’t been so lucky this year.

21.12.21

Easy Ways to Update Your Teenager’s Bedroom

It can be a difficult period for your child when they transition from a child to a teenager. It can cause many an argument between us the parents and them as they think they know better than we do.

They are trying to find themselves and in doing so you may notice that they change the way they look, the friends they hangout with and the things that interest them. Their bedroom might still be childish in appearance, and they might want to change it. This can be a parent’s nightmare especially if money is tight. But it doesn’t have to cost a lot of money to update their room and there are many ways you can update their room to give it a makeover that they would love.

Is A Shared Ownership Mortgage Right for You?


Getting on to the property ladder is hard, especially if you are young or a low-income earner. But thanks to a number of government schemes, it has become a lot easier in recent years. If you are a first-time buyer, you can now take advantage of schemes to help you save for a deposit, to finance your home with low-interest mortgages, alongside the Help to Buy and shared ownership scheme.

20.12.21

Is it Expensive to Stay in London?


This could be an incredibly short piece. Yes. Yes, it is expensive to stay in London! This is a fact often announced by travel agents, estate agents and wincing tourists who did not do their research before checking into a pricy hotel for their London stay. Having said that, there are ways that you can mitigate the costs of staying in London so that you enjoy a wonderful holiday that does not cost so much that you cannot afford another holiday next year! Let's take a look at these.

What Bed Would Father Christmas Sleep In?


Father Christmas doesn't sleep on Christmas Eve or Christmas morning, but he sleeps like a rock the rest of the time!

What bed does Santa sleep in? He sleeps in a rustic wooden bed shaped like a sleigh, sometimes with a carved headboard.

His bed is made from birch or pine, just like his magical sleigh, and it's topped with exotic furs and knitted throws to keep him nice and warm. Santa sleeps next to Mrs Claus, planning ideas for new toys all year.

6 Ways to Foster Independence in Your Children


Independence is the ability to make good decisions and take responsibility for yourself. It’s an important skill that every adult needs to thrive, and children can start learning this skill when they’re still very young.

As a parent, you have an essential role in helping your child learn to do things for themselves. However, in the everyday business of life, it can be easy to overlook this training or be unsure where to start with your kids.

Here are six ways that you can begin to foster independence in your children:

 

1. Make Time

Opportunities for encouraging independence are found every day, but many families are too busy to make the most of them. A busy schedule with no downtime leaves little time for learning. For instance, it’s hard to let your child tie his own shoes if you’re running late for school or an activity.

To better prioritize teaching independence, consider dropping an activity or two. Then, look for opportunities to let your child do things for themselves. Making their own bed, picking up their own toys, and even washing their own dishes after a meal can help kids develop a sense of independence and confidence in themselves.

2. Encourage Them

Children are very sensitive to verbal feedback, and they’ll notice if you feel impatient, frustrated, and disapproving. A key part of supporting them as they learn independence is to be patient with them and praise their efforts. You may have to rewash some dishes or do another pick-up when they’re done cleaning their room, but it’s important to still express pride in their effort.

As adults, it’s easy to forget how difficult things were the first time you tried them. Children can take us back to our own early experiences and remind us that everything was once new for us too. Part of building resilience in your kids is reminding them verbally that they are capable and you believe in their ability to get things done.

3. Give Guidance

There are many ways to teach life skills, and each child will respond uniquely to different kinds of guidance. However, the best teaching methods combine support with a push to help kids climb out of their comfort zones. Parenting is a delicate balancing act between protecting your children and allowing them to try new things and grow through experience.

For example, some parents have their kids use training wheels to learn to ride a bike. Others put their children on a bike at the top of a hill and then let them figure out how to ride on their own. While neither of those teaching methods is “wrong,” a better solution may be to help your child get started and then let them try out what you’ve described. Guidance can reduce frustration and give children the confidence to go out and try new things on their own.

4. Step Back

One of the best ways to teach independence is to stop doing everything for your child and give them space to take care of themselves. Of course, this doesn’t mean that you stop meeting your child’s needs – there are many things young children simply can’t do. However, children can start to grow in their independence by performing small tasks on their own throughout the day.

A good way to practice stepping back is to teach your child a new skill every week. These skills can be things they do for themselves or some small way they help you around the house. Some examples are tying their shoes, dressing themselves, brushing their teeth, picking up their rooms, wiping the table after a meal, and helping you rake leaves. Kids love to do adult things, and practising will help them learn.

5. Allow Failure

Many children are afraid of failure. They worry about what will happen if they don’t perform a task well, so they’re afraid to try new things. In adults, this is called perfectionism – if it’s not perfect, it’s not good. As a parent, you can teach your kids that this is simply not true.

Failure is a foundational part of learning, and it’s how you respond to failure that matters. A positive response to failure is known as resiliency, and it’s one of the most important predictors of future success in adults. Help your kids normalize and even celebrate failure, and then teach them how to try again. Removing shame and any feelings of inadequacy from failure will help your kids to thrive as independent adults.

6. Share Stories

Another way to teach independence to your children is to tell them stories about brave, resilient people. Children are looking for role models, and stories offer many characters who model bravery, intuition, strong decision-making skills, and courage. Stories can also teach children new ways of being independent, such as what to do if you’re bitten by a snake and how to respond if you get lost.

Building skills in the day-to-day helps kids develop the psychological muscles they need to grow in independence. However, stories can add a motivating factor to the way kids view independence – they can adopt the qualities of different characters during tough moments. Stories can also help kids learn to value independence as a good character quality in their own lives.

Raising Resilient Kids

Independence is a skill that can be taught, like using silverware and knowing where to look before you cross the street. With a little guidance and a lot of patience, you can help your kids begin to develop into resilient, self-reliant adults.

Use these six tips to get started, and remember that learning is a process. Your children can learn independence, but they’re also used to relying on you as a safety net and protector. Take this process one step at a time, and watch for results. You may be surprised by how much you learn about yourself along the way!


*This is a collaborative post*

17.12.21

The Ultimate Mum's Day Out in London

London is a city that never sleeps but it’s a great place for busy mums to relax, enjoy time with friends or to even get some much needed time alone. Whether you are planning a weekend in the city or just a day trip there is plenty to see and do.

16.12.21

Should you try and make additional money while travelling?


Some travellers make money as they adventure around the world. They may get a part-time job abroad at a local bar or school. They may set up a freelance business so they can expand their portfolio and fund their travels. There are plenty of ways to make money as you travel, but the question is – should you?

Travelling around the world is an opportunity to experience different cultures, cuisines and people. You might not want to spend time working – when you could be off on a new adventure. On the other hand, more money would allow you to travel to more places and stay in better accommodation.

How to Deal With Winter Back Pain Naturally


If you have back pain, you might find your symptoms get worse in the winter. However, you can’t let it slow you down when you have holiday gatherings to attend and sidewalks to shovel.

What can you do to cope with the ache? Here are seven ways for how to deal with winter back pain naturally.

15.12.21

10 Ways to Get Out of a Rut After Your Divorce


Going through a divorce is one of the most stressful times in a person’s life, and can leave the participants in a perpetual funk once it’s over. Here’s how to get out of this rut…

14.12.21

5 ways to make your bedroom extra cosy this Winter

Winter nights are long and cold and it seems like a long time before the lighter nights and fairer weather of spring returns especially once Christmas and New Year have been and gone.

We spend more time in our homes during the winter months so it’s important that its warm, comfortable and inviting.

On cold evenings I love nothing better than a lovely warm bath followed by snuggling up in a blanket with a hot chocolate, my kindle and a film on in the background. Sometimes I’ll watch downstairs other times I’ll take my hot chocolate to bed and get comfy in my bed – I won’t lie I love these nights the best as I feel more relaxed and sleep better too.

13.12.21

How to Find Your Personal Interior Style


After an extended period of time spent indoors, its understandable to feel like your home might need a refresh. Where this previously might have meant expensive interior design specialists to realise a vision, the democratisation of interior design and the rise of Instagram and Pinterest mean that homeowners have more resources available than ever before to take their home’s décor into their own hands. But you might be struggling to figure out what makes you tick design-wise. Look no further – here we’ll discuss ways to think about your new interior, and how to decorate it.

10.12.21

Is Buying A Used Car Safe For Your Family?


Buying a new car is one way to make sure that nobody else has already used and abused it. However, a lot of parents just don’t have the spare money to afford a new car for their family, when they’re also paying for all the other expenses that come with having children. Is it safe for families to buy a used car that someone else has already driven?

7.12.21

Maintaining Your Mental Health This Winter


Winter is upon us and it’s a time of year when the days are darker, the weather is colder and our mental health can take a dip. It’s common for people to struggle with poor mental health during the winter season, experiencing seasonal depression, fatigue and irritability, not to mention stress and anxiety over the festive period. Luckily, there are things you can do to make sure you stay positive and keep your mental health in good shape during the winter months. Here are a few helpful tips to ensure you’re maintaining good mental health this winter.

6.12.21

The Benefits of Reading for Children


Reading exercises the brain and teaches children more about the world that they live in. It allows them to develop the vital skills that are needed throughout school and can boost their academic performance in more ways than one. We have teamed up with an independent girls school in London to share more surprising benefits of reading for children.

5.12.21

Helping Your Child Develop their Critical Thinking Skills


Critical thinking skill is the skill needed to analyse, problem-solve and evaluate information by considering different perspectives. It can help your child to make better life decisions and equip them to be a powerful leader one day. A private school in Beaconsfield has shared an excellent set of tips on how to help your child develop their critical thinking skills.

Helping Your Child Transition from Nursery to Big School


The move from nursery to big school can be a scary one and not just for your little one. There are many changes that your child will need to get used to like putting things away after themselves, new faces and potentially longer hours away from mum. A childcare provider in Kew has shared a list of handy tips to help your child transition from nursery to big school.

4.12.21

Understanding Your Child's Learning Style


In the 1970s learning styles became very popular as a way of ‘hacking’ our learning, to help students retain more information from their classroom lessons and consistently too. While there are several out there, there are 3 main ones that we all recognise and can identify with. A nursery in Somerset shares more on understanding your child's learning style, what to look out for and what you can do to support their studies.

3.12.21

Win A Christmas Prize Worth Over £750

Are you counting down the days until Christmas? We are and we can't wait until the big day arrives. We were supposed to be moving house in the next two weeks but that has fallen through so we are in full Christmas mode. Although we won't be spending the day as we normally would (my husband is working over the festive period) we are planning to make the most of it and we plan to make sure the boys know the importance of Christmas - spending quality time with your loved ones. 

After a long two year wait his son will be coming over to spend some of the festive season with us and his brothers are beyond excited to get to see and spend quality time with their oldest brother. They are all console and games mad so I don't think we adults will see them much - well until we open the chocolates and dish up the buffet food (who doesn't love a good buffet at Christmas).

2.12.21

Things to Consider as An Airbnb Host

Staycations have become popular again in recent years. It’s never been easier or cheaper which only adds to its appeal. In fact, holidaying in the UK has come a long way since I was a child. When I was younger you either camped (which we did a lot) stayed in a caravan or if you had the money you stayed in a hotel. Nowadays you can rent cottages, apartments and even someone’s spare room for the duration of your holiday.