28.2.20

Making Returning to Work Easy for You and Your Child

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Having a baby is one of the most joyful events in your life. However, if you are starting to become disillusioned by sleepless nights and wailing babies, you might begin to consider returning to work once you have fully recovered from your pregnancy. Although returning to work can be a difficult process, here are some top tips to make the experience easier for both you and your child.

1. Hire a Nanny
Hiring a nanny is one of the best options for mums and babies who are struggling with any type of separation anxiety. Nannies are one of the best childcare options for the wellbeing of your child as they allow them to be looked after in the safety and familiar environment of their own home. Nannies adapt to your own schedule and allow you to spend more time with your child than you would if they were in childcare all day. Not only this, but they can also reduce the pressure of juggling a working life with motherhood, allowing you to easily return to work without worry. If you are looking for private household staff, Beauchamp Partners can help you search for the right nanny for you.

2. Return Gradually
Returning to work gradually is often best after spending the last couple of months away from your desk. Not only will this allow you to adjust to your new routine steadily, but it can also soften the experience for your baby and ensure that they do not experience any negative emotions or any separation anxieties from being left with an unfamiliar face. Working part-time can also be successful as this allows you to work while dealing with the stresses of motherhood, such as sleepless nights and appointments.

3. Look for Flexibility
Flexibility in a job is vital if you are looking to put your child first. Asking for flexible hours, particularly during school times or on weekdays, will ensure that you can be there for all the important times of your child’s day, such as school pick-ups and meals, while also helping you to start making an income. You will then be able to make time for your child whenever they need it, ensuring that, as they grow older, they do not feel left out or isolated from you. If your child is older, you should also try to stick to your usual daily routine and ensure that you pay attention to them when you return home, such as playing with them or cooking them dinner.

4. Find the Right Time
Returning to work can be stressful, and so it is paramount that you are able to find the right time to return to work, both for you and your child. You should ensure that any health issues that you dealt with after the pregnancy are solved, that your child is able to cope in childcare, and that you are feeling mentally and physically prepared to go back into the working environment without any repercussions for both you and your child.

3 comments:

  1. I was very emotional on my first day back at work after handing over my baby to a child minder. It took quite a while for me to stop worrying about her. Your suggestions of gradual and flexible returns are very wise.

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  2. Stressfull time - great ideas to lesson the load

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